Make life more fulfilling

by Heather Waring

DO you ever ask yourself "is this it, then?" or ponder "there must be more to life than this"?

There are a number of things that we have no control over at all, but there are many other aspects that we can do something about.

This week I want to look at developing new skills, taking up a hobby or just learning something new. What is it that you would like to do?

Sit down with pen and paper and write down all the things that come into your mind. Don't worry whether they are realistic or not, just put them down you can add to this list later. Then look through the list and pick one or two things that excite and inspire you. This may be new skills to enhance your career, a major course of study or reviving an old hobby or starting a new one. People who do interesting things attract others, tend to be happier and live longer good reasons indeed!

On average, most people in work will have four or five different careers in their lifetime. Therefore it seems likely that learning new things is something many of us may have to consider. If you can turn a hobby into a career or job then the likelihood of being successful and loving what you do is so much higher. Or if you can take even an hour out to indulge a passion, then you will feel you have had time for you.

Going back to studying, whether full time, part time or at an evening class, can be both daunting and exciting. Here are some of the issues you need to look at.

How long will this study last? Will you be able to work or does it mean giving up your job? If the course is relevant to your work and the company will benefit, is there a possibility that they will grant you leave or help pay for the course?

How will you cope financially? Think carefully about all your outgoings, and how you'll cover them. Do you qualify for a student loan or a bursary? Visit the library or surf the web as many companies, charities and trusts give grants for specific areas of study. Talk to your bank and mortgage people as they will be able to help plan payments, etc.

If you have family, you may need to consider child care. Can you use a crche, nursery or childminder? Is there a friend or family member who could help out?

Where and how will you study? You may have access to a college library but you will also need to find yourself some space at home where you can keep your things and where you can work. How will you ensure your things are safe and that you get the peace and quiet you need?

Studying requires discipline so sort yourself out a timetable. If you are struggling with a deadline, call your tutor and ask for an extension. However, try not to get into a habit of doing this.

Reward yourself. This might be a 20-minute tea break or time off once you have written that assignment.

To get the most out of your studying, get involved with others. It's good to have like minded people you can discuss issues with and bounce ideas off.

Whatever your age, experience or level of knowledge, you can always learn something new and it could lead to a whole new life.

As well as our Retirement Course, WaringWell is developing a whole range of courses that may be of interest. Visit www.waringwell.com and look at the news section.

As always please contact me with your thoughts, views and questions at [email protected] or write to me at Heather Waring/Features, Guardian House, 480-500 Larkshall Road, Highams Park, London E4 9GD.

16:49 Wednesday 5th March 2003

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